I think that both the "traditional family values" people and their sexual-revolutionary opponents have made an idol of Eros, but they've done it in different ways....My own problem with the cult of Eros isn't really that it allows non-traditional relationships. It's that it hogs all of love to itself. When I read about the attributes of marriage -- love, sharing, self-giving, commitment, duty -- I often think to myself, "But aren't Christians supposed to do that with everybody?"

[via The Musings and Searchings of Camassia]